We got curious about something.

When did we agree that turning 55,65,75 meanT we had to disappear?

For years, we’ve been following the “rules” – Dress Your Age – Don’t Draw Attention – Be “Appropriate.”

Then we realized: These rules aren’t protecting us. They’re shrinking us.

We started asking: What if we’re still growing?

What if we’re still discovering new things about ourselves?

What if we’re evolving in our thinking?

What if we’re becoming MORE of who we are…then shouldn’t our style reflect that?

In this week’s episode, we’re showing you how we dress now – not despite our ages, but BECAUSE of it.

Because we’ve earned the confidence to wear what we love – the wisdom to ignore arbitrary rules – the freedom to define “appropriate” for ourselves.

Abundance – we dress from fullness, not scarcity. Not “hiding flaws” but celebrating US.

Curiosity – we’re still exploring style, trying new things, playing with fashion.

Still Growing – our style grows WITH us, not against us.

You don’t have to dress young. You have to dress ALIVE.

Watch the video. Get curious about your own closet. Question the rules you’ve been following.

What will YOU wear when you stop worrying about what you ”should” wear?

Our Book Club Babes night this month

reminded us what happens when women gather with purpose and imagination. Hosted by Debi Catenacci, the evening celebrated Women in Sunlight by Frances Mayes, a luminous novel about friendship, aging boldly, and creating a life that still feels new.

Inspired by the story’s Italian setting,

Debi curated an evening of lavender beauty — candlelight, conversation, and biscotti gifts for each guest — weaving together food, philosophy, and friendship. Each book club member received a custom question drawn from the book’s themes, sparking heartfelt reflection and laughter throughout the night.

This gathering perfectly embodied

the values that drive Dare to Be Curious, grounded in Abundance. Curiosity. Still Growing. The spirit of Italy may have set the table, but it’s the shared connection that lingered long after the evening ended.

OUR NEW MESSAGING:

ABUNDANCE – CURIOUSITY – STILL GROWING

….four words that changed everything….

For years, we’ve been writing. Speaking. Sharing our stories with book clubs and women’s groups. But we haven’t been clear about what we’re really here to do.

So let us say it plainly: INSPIRE

Our mission is helping people see there’s always a bigger way of looking at things – especially in situations where they believe they have no choice.

Everything we do – our writing – our speaking – our platforms – comes down to four words:

ABUNDANCE

Believing in possibilities, not limitations. Choosing abundance of spirit over bitterness. Abundance means believing there’s always enough – love, growth, possibilities for all of us.

CURIOUSITY

We question everything – especially “that’s just how it is.” What if there’s another way. Following those strong desires to know or learn something about a place….a new skill ….a new hobby…

STILL GROWING

We don’t have all the answers. We’re not “done”. We haven’t “arrived”. We’re still learning. Still questioning. Still expanding. Big. Bigger. Biggest.

This is who we’ve always been. We’re just finally naming it.

And now we’re inviting you to join us.

This blog, our YouTube channel “DARE TO BE CURIOUS” – they’re part of the same mission.

We’ll share stories from our journey. Hard-won wisdom. Questions worth asking. And invitations to question the rules you’ve been handed

Because here’s what we know for sure: There’s always another perspective. Always another possibility.

So here we are. A new chapter. A clearer voice. A bolder mission.

If this resonates with you – if you’re ready to expand your perspective, and discover what becomes possible when you trust your own wisdom…

Welcome. Let’s grow together.

Speaking of questioning rules….next time we’re diving into something we are really curious about: all those arbitrary “rules” we’re supposed to follow after 55.

You know the ones: “Dress your age” – “That’s not appropriate for someone your age” –“You’re too old for that.”

Who made those rules? And what happens if we question them?

Join us next time as we explore what it means to keep growing – in every way, including how we show up in the world.

Because if you’re still growing, why should your style stay stuck?

Abundant. Curious. Still Growing -in fashion and in life.

See you next time!

Want to connect? Follow us on Instagram and Facebook and visit Bigbiggbiggest.life. Let’s expand our perspectives together.

WHY LITTLE WOMEN STILL INSPIRES READERS TODAY…

Sisterhood, ambition, and sacrifice – the March sisters’ lessons still resonate in 2025 ….

Hi, everyone, and welcome!

This month our book club dived into one of the most beloved classics of all time: Little Women by Louisa May Alcott.

This book has been cherished for generations,

but for us, it became even more special recently when we had the chance to visit Louisa May Alcott’s home in concord, Massachusetts.

Standing in the very rooms where she lived

and wrote gave us such a vivid sense of how personal this story was for her – it’s not just fiction, it’s her family’s life woven into a novel.

What we love about Little Women

is how timeless it feels, even though it was first published in 1869. The struggles, the joys, the relationships between sisters, and the choices each one makes – they still speak to us today. And of course, everyone has an opinion about Jo, Laurie, Meg, Beth, Amy ….and whether Alcott got their endings, “right”.

We talked about all of that: which March sister we connected to, how the book holds up in 2025, and of course the age-old debate – Team Laurie or Team Professor Bhaer.

What struck us, even after more than 150 years, is how Louisa May Alcott captured the everyday struggles of growing up, of figuring out who you are, and of making choices that shape your life.

Hearing everyone’s perspectives –

whether you’re Team Laurie or Team Professor Bhaer, a Jo at heart or an Amy in spirit – reminds us of why book clubs matter – we don’t just read the same words, we discover new meanings together – spirited, funny, and deeply thoughtful.

We hope this discussion inspires you

to revisit the March sisters with fresh eyes. The ambition, sacrifices, and relationships that shaped the March sisters are the same themes we grapple with today.to revisit the March sisters with fresh eyes. The ambition, sacrifices, and relationships that shaped the March sisters are the same themes we grapple with today.

We’d love to hear from you – which March sister do you see yourself in? Please share your thoughts in the comments, and if you’d like to watch our full book club discussion, you can find it at our YouTube channel, DARE TO BE CURIOUS.

The beauty of traveling with friends who are curious is in exploring far flung Ports of Call.

As the ship approached, Nuuk, Greenland was framed by striking fjords and backed by snow-dusted peaks.

Who knew we would find a gourmet restaurant in this tiny capital city.

Sarfalik in the Hotel Hans Egede should have a Michelin Star!

It was a unique culinary experience that blended traditional Greenlandic dishes – whale skin with blubber, musk ox, reindeer meat – with local fresh seafood like halibut, cod and shrimp. Plus the service was first class fabulous and the staff could not have been friendlier.

We experienced more Greenlandic hospitality the next day when we visited with a local family. We were served coffee, tea and homemade cakes warm from the oven while our hostess, a former teacher, shared stories of Greenland and its ancient Inuit traditions. To add even more fascination a local musician played guitar and serenaded us. Music is truly the universal language!

Then we were on to St. John’s, Newfoundland, one of North Americans oldest and most historically engaging places.

From being greeted by my favorite canines – two beautiful black Newfoundland dogs – to exploring its historic landmarks like Signal Hill where Guglielmo Marconi received the first transatlantic wireless signal in 1901 to its bustling George Street nightlife, the city blends tradition and modern.

Not to be missed is a cruise out to Puffin Island.

Newfoundland is the seabird capital of North America with a population of 35 million comprised of gannets, puffins, stormpetrels and razonbills. The island has the largest colony of colorful puffins you will ever see. Don’t miss their antics and the babies in the nest. A joy to behold.

Halifax, Nova Scotia is full of ocean-faring history.

As the closest city to the sinking of the Titanic, recovered victims were transported to – and many were buried – in Halifax. The story, and items from the doomed vessel, are displayed in the museum’s collection.

Peggy’s Cove lighthouse is nearby, and this immaculate little lighthouse is one of Canada’s favorites , watching out over the atlantic’s waves.

Don’t stop there! Visit Lunenburg which was founded in 1753 and declared a UNESCO World Heritage site in 1995.

Next drive to Mahone Bay, a town famous for its iconic three churches where you can peruse the many antique stores, local bakeries, or craft shops.

Whether you want to savour the salt air and atmosphere in one of the cafes, buy souvenirs, or just mosey along viewing the impressive sites and taking pictures, the choices are limitless.

It felt so appropriate to close out the World Cruise in Boston, one of the oldest cities in the United States, and the birthplace of our Revolutionary War.

Walk the Freedom Trail – visit Old North Church – Copley Square – stand in Harvard Yard to glimpse the beautiful grounds and the ivy covered brick buildings of one of our finest Universities.

On our last day of sightseeing we relived the history of New England towns that preserve the heritage and dignity of the country’s beginnings with visits

to Lexington, Concord and North Bridge. As writers we loved spending time in the home of Louisa May Alcott, Author of the beloved Little Women.

That evening we were invited for one magical final movement as our Controtempo journey reached its crescendo in the illustrious Boston Symphony Hall

We began the evening with a sumptuous dinner as we toasted to friendships made and discoveries enjoyed. Then, under the baton of legendary conductor Keith Lockhard, the renowned Boston Pops Orchestra performed a musical odyssey curated exclusively for us, stirring the memories of our time together on this incredible voyage that echoed in our hearts and minds long after we returned home.

“Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination”…Plato

THE DARE TO BE CURIOUS JOURNEY CONTINuES…

THIS SEGMENT OF SHERRILL’S JOURNEY IS A MOTHER DAUGHTER TRIP……AROUND THE WORLD IN 140 DAYS…..

We know that you are going to enjoy this Dare to be Curious blog and segment of our travel journey.

In Sherrill’s adventure and next segment on the Silversea Dawn, she is joined by her daughter Heidi, for a mother-daughter adventure.

Debi has returned to Chicago and shares her thoughts of ports and portals in her published article, “Silversea Wanderlust,” published by Classic Chicago Magazine.

SHERRILL’S MOTHER-DAUGHTER TRIp

For me traveling is my lifeblood – traveling with loved ones is an infusion of joy.

Joy was endless when through unforeseen circumstances and generosity, my oldest daughter, Heidi, was able to join me during a month of my Around the World Cruise. I am delighted to share some of the highlights in this blog and even more fun in our Dare to be Curious YouTube.

The adventure began when Heidi boarded the ship in Southhampton, UK – home of the ill-fated Titanic departure.

Nothing ill-fated about arriving the next day in Rouen, France for a two-night stay.

We strolled the North bank of the River Seine, which has stirred the souls of great writers and inspired painters in the past before we headed to the Hotel Dolec outside the town of Versailles. There we changed for “An Evening with Marie Antoinette.”

Yes, we journeyed back in time for a lavish evening at the Court of Marie Antoinette.

Our after-hours arrival and wander through the Palace of Versailles took us to the majestic Galerie des Batailles where champagne, Rococo minutes and opulent gastronomy prepared by France’s original caterer of kings awaited. Certainly, a night never to be forgotten.

The following morning, we took the sixty-minute drive to the center of Paris where we explored and had lunch with a dear friend who has liven in the city for the last several years. Nothing like seeing Paris through the eyes of a Parisian.

We said good-bye to France on the River Seine, heading to open water and the Netherlands.

Amsterdam is not just about its rich history and charming architecture. It is also a city of vibrant culture and modern innovation. This “Venice of the North” is renowned for its artistic heritage and strong ties to legendary artists like Rembrandt and Van Gogh, both of whom lived and worked in Amsterdam. Their legacies can be found at the Van Gogh Museum and the Rijksmuseum, which house countless masterpieces that attract art lovers from around the globe.

What also attracts visitors for 7 weeks a year is the Tulip Festival and we were so very fortune to visit during this time. The Tulip Fields are a masterpiece of nature not to be missed!

The Hanseatic City of Hamburg is not only German’s second-largest metropolis and one of Europe’s biggest ports, but also home to the hamburger! I know, surprising, right??

It is also where the Beatles got their real start. How could we resist a tour titled, “Beatles, Beer and Bratwurst” and a Peep into Hamburg’s Red-Light District.

We loved eating brats on the street and it was much fun for me to drink my first beer ever in a loud energetic Hamburg Beerhall!

Our days in Germany were also somber as we visited Bergen-Belsen, the concentration camp where Anne Frank and her sister Margot were interned and died. A visit of deep reflection on history and the power of the human spirit.

We continued on to Copenhagen, Denmark which has long been one of my favorite places to visit. It was a delight to show Heidi the oldest and most charming parts of this effortlessly cool city.

Of course, a photo stop at the Little Mermaid is a must before driving through the bustling Nyhaven area, stopping at Kings Square where the Royal Theatre, embassies and many fashionable shops are located.

No time for shopping as we visited Tivoli Gardens, founded in 1843 and was the inspiration for Disneyland after Walt Disney visited its mix of attractions mingled with charming flower beds, relaxing gardens and a small lake.

Since the fairy-tale writer Hans Christian Andersen is Danish, we could not resist the lure of Denmark’s Fairytale Castles.

Frederiksborg Castle, built in the early 17th Century by the legendary Danish King Christian IV, incorporates the finest Renaissance architecture and craftsmanship I have ever seen. Its magnificent halls, impressive chapel, portraits, paintings and furniture explores five hundred years of Danish history.

Do not miss visiting this masterpiece!

Helsinki lies across a confetti scattering of three hundred islands and skerries in the Gulf of Finland.

Helsinki Cathedral is the crowning glory – rising high over the city’s waterfront with its pearly white dome gleaming.

Market Square is the city’s most international and famous market. The booths sell traditional foods and treats. For handicrafts and souvenirs visit the outside booths. It is the best shopping in town.

Tallin, Estonia boasts one of the best-preserved UNESCO listed old towns in Northern Europe.

We explored the fascinating castles, squares, cathedrals and streets of medieval Tallinn.

Walk to the Dome Church, the oldest in Tallinn. Known as St. Mary’s Cathedral, it has served as the burial site for nobility since the fifteenth century and has a fascinating collection of noble tombstones and stone sarcophagi.

Next head to the Palace Square site of the Alexander Nevsky Cathedral. Step inside this Russian Orthodox Basilica to view the icons and mosaics lining the walls.

Leaving the Cathedral, walk to a viewing platform to amaze over the spires of Tallinn’s Lower-Old Town.

Stroll through the Lower Old-Town and St. Catherine’s Passage, a medieval walkway that is home to St. Catherine’s Guild, a collection of artisan studios featuring Baltic glassware, quilts, hats and other traditional crafts.

I urge you to take the Tallinn Ghost Tour by foot – the guide is worth the time and price!

Stockholm Sweden is home to the Noble Prize and so much more!

Go through the City Center to Djurganden Island, once the royal family’s private hunting grounds, now regarded as the city’s outdoor recreation center. Visit the Vasa Museum, home to the seventeenth Century warship which sank on its maiden voyage and its salvage in 1961 is an important event in marine archaeology.

Want to dance and sing with ABBA? Do it at the ABBA museum!

That evening we were invited to Winterviken – once Albert Nobel’s dynamite factory, now transformed into Stockholm’s most elegant event space. We savored Swedish delicacies crafted by rising Scandinavian culinary talents and were entertained by the iconic sounds of ABBA performed by stars from London’s West End hit musical Mama Mia. We were both Dancing Queens!

Oslo, Norway’s Capital is a beautiful stirring city, blending old and new.

The MUST sights are the Vigeland Sculpture Park, which features two hundred sculptures in bronze, granite and iron, a monolith with one hundred and twenty-one figures carved from a single block of granite and thirty -six statue groups surrounding

the monolith. The Fram Museum to see the world’s most famous polarship. It is displayed in its original condition and visitors are welcome onboard. It was truly a thrill!! Take a step back in time at the quaint Open-Air Folk Museum.

On to Norway’s Gate to the Fjords, picturesque Bergen. The crooked pastel-colored warehouses of Bryggen Wharf, A UNESCO World Heritage Site, is THE place for wandering, shopping and fine dining.

We left Europe heading to Torshavn, Faroe Islands. Titanic scenery, mist-whipped mountains and staggering oceanic vistas awaited us in this far-flung archipelago of immense natural beauty.

Akureyri, Iceland’s Capital of the North, is the gateway to a thrilling land of roaring waterfalls, soaring volcanoes and wildlife as it lies a mere sixty miles from the Artic Circle.

Tiny Isafjordur, with only two thousand six- hundred inhabitants, is up a deep fjord. We celebrated “Mother’s Day” there at a tiny restaurant with delicious homemade bread. While shopping at artisan shops, where everything is made by fifteen women artists in town, we enjoyed tea and tales rich in troll-inspired folklore.

Reykjavik, Iceland’s capital, stands as a testament to the resilience and ingenuity of its people. This is truly a land of fire and ice.

A Mother and Daughter journey of discovery, full of memories to last a lifetime.

DEBI’S ARTICLE IN CLASSIC CHICAGO MAGAZINE!

Debi has returned to Chicago and shares her thoughts on ports and portals in her published article, “Silversea Wanderlust,” published by Classic Chicago Magazine.

https://classicchicagomagazine.com/silversea-wanderlust/

In Lisbon Portugal,

Debi joined me for more adventure!  We indulged our senses with the traditional flavors and sounds of Portugal .. a Fado Evening at the popular local restaurant, Casa de Linharees.  Fardo (destiny or fate) is a musical genre that can be traced back to the 1820’s but probably with much earlier origins It is characterized by mournful tunes and lyrics, often about the sea and nostalgic feelings or missing someone.  With food and wine, it was a warm welcome back to Lisbon.

The next day we kept it going with a taste of the Portuguese Riviera by visiting the picturesque mountainous region of Sintra.  It was all fairy tale castles, spectacular mountain vistas and fantastic shopping.

Onward to Spain…..we were prepared to be entranced….and we were indeed….by the amazing architecture and serene landscapes of Spain’s Basque country gem Bilbao.  The area is full of charm with beautiful beaches, the city built between cliffs and skirted by the majestic Nervion River.

However, it is the Guggenheim Museum of Modern Art, designed by renowned architect, Frank O. Gehry, that draws most visitors.

The building is covered with over 35,000 titanium tiles and pieces of glass strategically placed to catch the natural light.  This masterpiece of flowing titanium and limestone reflects Bilbao’s heritage with its suggestion of maritime shapes and sails.  Jeff Koon’s iconic Puggy was a personal Favorite for both of us.

Bordeaux, France….a wine lovers dream came next.

It is synonymous with quality and prestige and the promise of endless opportunities to sample the city[‘s famous full-bodied red wines.

Our ship was docked on the river right in town…. We walked everywhere and found the only authentic restaurant opened on a Sunday…1925….where the owner was not only the sommelier but also served us our dinner plus made our Crepe Suzette at the table. 

In our few days in Bordeaux we crammed in as many experiences as possible.  One of our favorites was UNESCO World Heritage , Saint Emilion Village with food and wine pairing lunch at Chateau de Ferrand.  We couldn’t decide which was more fabulous….as the next day we drove thirty minutes to the Pessac-Leognan vineyards and Chateau Smith Haut Lafitte.

Since its purchase by Florence and Daniel Catheird in 1990 the winery has become one of the leading lights of Bordeaux thanks to its elegant powerful red and white wines.

Since then, the owners have not only brought the wine od Smith Haut Lafitte up to the very highest level, but also restored the chateau’s 16th century tower, completely renovated two underground cellars, built their own cooperage and introduced such organic methods as horse-drawn ploughing, homemade composts and the use of plant extracts.

After a tour of this magnificent vineyard, we proceeded to the tasting room for a private tasting of 3 wines.  An unforgettable day!

Our tour of France continued in Saint Malo, which is a great jumping off spot to visit the renowned, Mont St Michel.  Since we have visited this “Wonder of the West”, a Gothic style Benedictine Abbey, we chose to explore Brittany’s Picturesque Villages.

The contrasting attractions of Dinan and Dinard are a world apart in appearance that exists with only a twenty minute drive from one another.  The first is a walled hill town still bristling with fortresses, with more than its fair share of wobbly half-timbered houses on ancient streets…. While the latter is a former fishing village that became an elegant and affluent resort in the 19th century, complete with a casino.

Next, Our route took us to Saint Peter Port, Guernsey.

At the Les Rocquettes Hotel and restaurant, we were treated to a refreshing  gin welcome drink before sitting down to a three-course lunch expertly crafted with each dish paired with wine to elevate the flavors to new heights.  The chef explained the locally sourced ingredients used for each course and why they are all so special to the island.

After lunch we took a short walk to J B Parker’s Bar and Cellar.

Nestled beneath the ancient cobbled streets of Saint Peter Port, this atmospheric bar houses a captivating underground wine cellar where the sommelier chose his favorite vintages for us to sample.

Afterwards, we took a leisurely stroll back to the pier, allowing us to soak in the beauty of this enchanting island.

The mysterious continent of africa

MANY FACES OF AFRICA….AROUND THE WORLD IN 140 DAYS with Sherrill…

Africa has many faces. 

Some heartbreaking.  Others are inspirational.  For me that is the essence of this continent, particularly on this journey from South Africa, up the West Coast to Senegal.

Two decades ago I visited Africa for the first time to camp out in The Serengeti with Firelight Safari’s.  It was a cosmic occurrence. 

There were only 6 of us – three women from Chicago and three younger women from California.  Since then I have attended two of their weddings, baby showers, gone on anniversary trips and we visit together whenever possible….such is the power of seeing together our first lion in the wilderness. 

I have returned to Africa many times on land safari trips.  However, on this journey I chose a cruise which took me from South Africa to Senegal.

Our first port of call was Port Elizabeth, an uncut gem. It is a holiday destination for wealthy South African families for its unspoiled beaches and it is close to two game parks.

I could not resist another chance to see the fabled Big Five – lion, elephant, rhino, cape buffalo and leopard.

I took a dusk game drive with dinner in the wild and then arose at dawn the next day for another including brunch in the bush.  Seeing animals in the wild is a gift I endlessly appreciate.

On to Durban, a melting pot of ethnicity with all cultures from Zulu (Caught  a performance of the Zulu Warriors), to Indian (the largest population outside of India).  The restaurants are fabulous and reflect their diverse cultural scene.

Ah, Cape Town, one of my favorites, sprawling across the staggeringly blue coastline and watched over by the iconic Table Mountain.  I have visited Robben Island with Mandela’s cramped cell and taken the tour of long walk to freedom….it is heartbreaking and inspiring.

On this visit

I chose a lighter way to enjoy this city by visiting its famous vineyards and educating my palate beyond my favored champagne.  A tour worth taking.

Luderitz, Namibia was a new destination for me, as was each county up this coast, and its “Skeleton Coast” of scorched desert and seemingly endless sand dunes had another world beauty.

Walvis Bay is so rich in sea life and is a bird lovers paradise.  I spent a lovely day on a small boat and was befriended by a few curious pelicans and a very energetic seal.

Walvis bay is on the cusp of the sun-scorched Namibia desert.  Dune 7 rises up to form the highest sand dune in the country.  Here, amongst the dunes I attended a private party.  Under a full moon I enjoyed the local cuisine, traditional Namibian flavors, with music and entertainment I have seen nowhere else in the world….a night to remember.

Our next port of call, Luanda, Angola was a total surprise.  As capital of Africa’s second-largest oil-producing country it is a study in contrasting economies.  Its renaissance offers luxury hotels to a restaurant lined oceanfront promenade to locals hawking homemade goods at crowded public markets.  A must visit is to go out to Miradouro de Lua, a mini Grand Canyon.

Tema, Ghana,  broke my heart. The people are friendly and beautiful and live in conditions which rival anything I have seen in my travels.

My aim here was to take the two hour drive, passing through towns, villages, and the countryside to the Krobo region which is famous for its beads.  My goal was to leave some money for local artisans.  The Cedi Bead factory, a compound of small peaceful gardens and thatched buildings is home to the art of making glass beads of many designs and colors.  It is only done in Ghana and is a true African treasure….I am happy to report that I achieved my goal.

At Takoradi, Ghana, a must is the UNESCO World Heritage, Elmina Castle and Cape Coast Castles, where I also reached my goal of donating to the economy of Ghana.

Banjul, The Gambia, is a place of scorched sunlight and faded colonial history.  Market Circle is a whirl of wonderful shopping possibilities.  A visit to the Kachikally Crocodile Pool, one of three sacred crocodile pools used as sites for fertility rituals is a must visit.

Our last port of call in Africa, Dakar, capital of Senegal.  The former colonial trading post stamps the Cape-Vert peninsular with beaches.  Those wanting to delve deeper into the history should visit House of Slaves on the UNESCO World Heritage Site listed on Goree Island.  I chose to close out this latest trip to Africa with a game drive where I was awarded with seeing an Ostrich sitting on several of her eggs….the Circle of Life….so totally appropriate for my farewell to a continent which so fascinates me…..until next time…

Debi will be joining me as we cruise to Portugal, Spain, France and the British Isles.

Sherrill’s continuing 140 day voyage around the world.

Singapore is a spectacular, futuristic vision of a perfect city. It is designed with gorgeous outdoor parks, massive indoor greenhouses and beautiful recreational spaces between the “City Garden’s “skyscrapers. The lush green botanic gardens are a UNESCO World Heritage Site not to be missed.

For shopping I hit Orchard Road, a long tree-lined one-way street filled with luxury fashion boutiques and the shopping malls are iconic. My favorite hotel is The Raffles which just went through a perfect renovation, maintaining its old world charm. It is the home of the Singapore Sling cocktail. It is not my favorite, but everyone likes to try one once.

When you add in the Singapore cuisine which is a mouthwatering fusion of Indian, Chinese, Indonesian and Malay influences, you have a foodie’s dream.

I was on the city’s impeccably clean subway system, and I asked my guide, “Are the people here happy?”. Two unknown fellow passengers yelled out, “YES!” I believe them.

On to Phuket, Thailand, the largest island and some of the country’s most dramatic scenery. Markets were a must visit and the temples. A country rich in sights, scents, and sounds! I made sure I experienced the Thai Performance at Siam Niramet with dinner. My tastebuds were tantalized by a mixture of Thai, Indian and Malay delicacies before a not-to-be-missed evening of music, dance, amazing costumes and unbelievable production values. Truly breathtaking!

Sri Lanka, or Pearl of the Indian Ocean, as many call it, was our next port of call. It is just off the coast of India and not surprisingly, it felt as if I was back in India, as the influence is everywhere.

Particularly in Trincomalee, the gateway to Sri Lanka’s historical treasurers and the finest natural harbor in the world.

The temple of the Thousand Pillars is a classical-medieval Hindu temple complex that is well worth a visit.

The only reason to go to Hambnota is as a jumping off to Yala National Park. Leaving the ship at 4:30 am, we arrived at this renowned wildlife sanctuary and national park by 6 am. It is famous for its high density of leopards. My safari jeep was the only one, amongst many, to be at the right place at the right time to spy a leopard running across the road in front of us.

Even better, was watching young male elephants playing on the road in front of us. It is such a gift to see animals in their natural habitat. Game drives truly are one of my happy places.

Located just off the east coast of Madagascar, Mauritius is another tropical paradise in the Indian Ocean.

It is a vibrant cultural mix of impressive mountains, boundless sugar cane plantations and exquisite beaches. The Port Louis Main Market (also known as the Port Louis Main Bazaar) is a treat with its exotic fruit and vegetables, clothing, wooden and traditional handicraft products, local jewelry and souvenirs at very low prices.

The Seychelles, world renowned for their pristine water and beautiful beaches, was our last stop before heading to South Africa.

But I couldn’t leave until I spent time with their Giant Tortoises.

Now on to the mysterious African Continent.

For more travel inspiration, Debi shares her winter hibernation in Hawaii, check out Debi’s published travel article in the Classic Chicago Magazine in the below link:

https://classicchicagomagazine.com/hibernate-in-hawaii/

And oh by the way, Debi share her delicious Hawaii flavored Divine Biscotti recipe, Yum!!

This was my first visit to the Garden City of Xiamen, China, which is a historic trading city surging towards the future located on Tawain Straits. Bring there during the celebration for the Year of the Snake added extra color to the lush greenery as red lanterns were hung all over the island.

The many parks are lush, beautiful and gathering spaces for the locals. In one park – a special area is roped off for feeding pigeons - which I was told is a favorite pastime. The day I visited whole families were feeding and visiting with their favorite pigeon families. The city is also known as an important collection and distribution center for Oolong Tea. I confess to enjoying the VERY best pot of Oolong Tea I have ever sipped.

On to Hong Kong, a world class city with a remarkable history.

They say the only way to get to know a place is to do what the locals do – when in Hong Kong, shop! Shops are open late, some until midnight. You will find a bargain roaming the chaotic open-air markets in search of designer knockoffs or you can find the real deal going for half its regular price in one of the many malls.

Hong Kong has a spectacular serrated skyline of soaring towers and neon lights. A favorite day for me was taking the Star Ferry to Hong Kong Island, shopping Stanley Market, taking a Junk ride in Aberdeen, which remains a fighting village, going to Victoria Peak for the best views over Hong Kong harbor and taking the Peak Tram down for even more spectacular views and ending the day with Afternoon Tea at the Iconic Peninsula Hotel – how many ways can I say , BLISS.

No visit to the North of Vietnam is complete without a stay at Ha Long Bay, a magnificent landscape and UNESCO World Heritage Site. Dotting the bay are tiny islands bordered by white sandy coves and hidden caves which I explored.

I left the other world beauty of Ha Long Bay for a day trip to Hanoi to delve into the city at center stage during the Vietnam War. A visit to the infamous “Hanoi Hilton” which held many American servicemen was sobering and thought provoking. Outside, visiting the beautiful city, especially The Temple of Literature, dedicated to Confucius, and watching the families in traditional dress celebrating the Lunar New Year brought me back to the moment. Time does indeed heal old wounds.

Leaving the North, we headed to the central region of Vietnam with a visit to Da Nang, surrounded by rolling rice paddies, grazing water buffalo and soaring limestone scenery. The city is bustling with as many motorbikes as people. Always daring to be curious, I quite enjoyed my Pedicab ride through all the traffic to the Old Town. The market is huge, chaotic but full of great inexpensive souvenirs to take home. The undulating humps of the city’s Dragon Bridge soars across the River Han, At night, strobing lights illuminate its flowing form and the bridge’s dragon head spits fire into the dark.

Nearby Hoi An, a city revered for its well-preserved history and legendary culinary scene, was a gastronomic adventure never to be forgotten.

After a sunset cruise along the river, while enjoying cold champagne, I dined at the Cargo Club Café which serves a curated menu of sumptuous Vietnamese comfort food – assorted mixed dumplings, Pomelo salad, Bun Hai Sun, a tomato based seafood noodle soup with prawns, passion fruit sorbet as a palate cleanser, Black Pepper Beef with Jasmine Rice and Coconut Prawns , ending with sauteed bananas with coconut milk.

I ended my Vietnamese visit in Ho Chi Minh City, formerly known as Saigon and most still refer to it that way. It is a place of incense-infused temples, colonial architecture, warm people and delicious street food.

Exploring the city’s many historic buildings and museums is one of the best ways to experience its cultural diversity. The Reunification Palace is a wonderful example of mid-century modern architecture that functioned as the South Vietnamese government’s seat of power throughout the war.

“Good evening, Saigon” at the top of The Majestic Hotel with traditional music and dances was the perfect way to end my visit to the city the French christened “The Pearl of the Orient.”

For more travel inspiration, Debi shares her winter hibernation in Hawaii, check out Debi’s published travel article in the Classic Chicago Magazine in the below link:

https://classicchicagomagazine.com/hibernate-in-hawaii/

And oh by the way, Debi share her delicious Hawaii flavored Divine Biscotti recipe, Yum!!

Sherrill will be going AROUND THE WORLD IN 140 DAYS. . .JAPAN FROM THE SNOW MONKEY’S OF NAGANO TO THE BATTLE OF OKINAWA….it is a country of many faces.

Joshinetsu-Kogen National Park in the northern part of Nagano prefecture is buried in snow almost half the year. With its steep cliffs and the steam coming off springs, it is a paradise for troops of wild Japanese macaque (popularly known as snow monkeys) to live and bathe.

To watch their antics in the hot springs, I had to climb – in boots with chains attached to bottoms – about two miles up and the same down. It is not for the faint of heart!

I was there during Chinese New Year’s so it was very crowded but I still recommend the experience. A word of warning –don’t make eye contact and hold it as the monkeys believe that is a sign of aggression.

In contrast to the natural wonders of northern Japan, Tokyo is dense, delightful and kinetic. I stayed at two five star hotels – the Mandarin Oriental and the Okura - which I would recommend for everything from the views of the city, the fabulous bathrooms with Toto commodes which are a wonderment and do everything except talk to you, to their wonderful restaurants offering unique tastes of the country’s cuisine.

My first port of call was Osaka, Japan’s third largest city. Since it was an overnight stay, I took the fast train to Kyoto, a slice of old Japan that is not to be missed. It was the ancient capital and to this day it is still the home of the Geisha culture.

I believe everyone knows that the city was spared being a target in WWII because the Secretary of War, Harry Stimson had honeymooned there.

It was well worth the comfortable fast train ride to visit Kyoto’s Kinkakuji Temple, the most famous and picturesque temple in Japan. The gold-covered structure reflected on the water is almost surreal. The Golden Pavilion walking tour is well worth doing. I also recommend a Nijo Castle walking tour. The Castle is unique as it looks more like a temple than a castle. Built in 1603 at the start of thw Edo Period, it served as a residence of the Tokugawa Shogunate until it ended in 1867.

No visit to Kyoto is complete without a Kaiseki traditional multi-course Japanese meal. I have only a vague idea about what I enjoyed. There was raw, simmering, fried, grilled and boiled. All colorful and tasty!

I next visited the Hiroshima Pace Memorial Park, a UNESCO WORLD HERITAGE SITE. Walking in the leafy boulevards to the Flame of Peace and to the Children’s Peace Monument brings quiet contemplation.

The Children’s Monument is a homage to little Sadoko Susaki, who was just two in 1945 when the bomb was dropped. When she developed leukemia in 1956, she believed that if she folded 1,000 paper cranes – a symbol of longevity and happiness in Japan – she would recover. She died before she finished her task but her classmates finished the rest.

Today, children all over Japan make paper cranes and bring to hang at the monument. This and the museum displaying personal belongings, compelling photographs and stories of the sadness and aftermath of the bomb is a must for all visitors to this city. Its decades long remarkable restoration is truly inspiring in its scope.

Beppa Kyushu Island is located in a particularly volcanically active part of Japan – hence the abundance of hot springs or in Japanese, onsens. The viewing pools have evocative names. I didn’t hesitate to kick off my shoes ad pamper my feet in both Blood Pond Hell and Sea Hell. My travel weary toes thanked me.

One of Japan’s most southerly major cities, Kagoshima is dominated by the imposing Sakurajima volcano’s cone. An old-time ferry chugs across the still water to the foothills of the sloping foothills of the volcan’s cone. The volcano has had 30 major eruptions in recorded history and is still erupting as it was spewing during my visit. Dusty day but well worth it even though I had to always wear sunglasses to keep the ash out of my eyes.

My final stop in Japan was Naha, Okinawa. Here food is life and the delicious regional cuisine is one of the secrets to its residents longevity. It is in one of the world’s “Blue Zone”, an area where people live longer than average life expectancy and the island’s diet is thought to be the reason. I sampled the cuisine and felt younger!

I spent the day exploring the monuments dedicated to the Battle of Okinawa, one of the deadliest battles of WWII. U.S. troops landed on April1, 1945 and it took 82 nightmarish days for the island to be captured. I started at the former Japanese Navy’s underground headquarters and then on to the Himeyuri Monument. It is dedicated to over 200 female students and their teachers who died as volunteer nurses in the Himeyuri Corps. This monument so touched my heart, I felt it fitting to end my exploration of Japan at the Peace Memorial Park and Cornerstone of Peace. It is located overlooking the ocean and stands as a symbol of the tragic loss of life for the Okinawan and Allied Forces.

Peace study is taught to every elementary student in Japan. I felt that commitment to world peace every day I spent in this beautiful country.

Debi is Hibernating in Hawaii but before we get to her Adventure, we would like to let you know that Debi has one of her delicious Divine Biscotti recipes featured in “Taste of Italia,” on newsstands now through March, also available at Whole Foods and Barnes and Noble.

NOW, GETTING BACK TO DEBI HIBERNATING AND RELAXING IN HAWAII...

In a straight-line flight of 4,198 miles outside of Chicago, there stretches a 48 mile-long volcanic landscaped island filled with colorful tropics and golden beaches basked by endless timeless sunshine.

Stepping off the plane, I immerse myself in the harmonious Aloha Spirit of Maui.

I am open for a self-redirection and heightened energy circulation of mind, body and spirit. Check in at the Grand Weilea’s Kilolani Spa, a fully reimagined wellness space, recognized in the 2024, “Vogue Global Spa Guide,” as one of the 100 Best Spas Worldwide.

The open-air dining and views of the Pacific are breathtakingly stunning. The Maui Mahi Mahi is caught fresh every day.

Check-out our YouTube video for much more of our adventures.

“LIFE IS A JOURNEY, NOT A DESTINATION”

-RALPH WALDO EMERSON

…..and it is at the heart of Bigbiggerbiggest.life – fill the journey with what makes your heart sing!

Take that Art, cooking, sewing,(fill in the blank) class!  Write that book!  Take that trip!

So we are taking that trip this winter!

Sherrill will be sharing Around the World in 140 Days – yes, a World Cruise!

Debi will be sharing her adventures in Maui, Hawaii and California as she follows the sun.

We haven’t been everywhere but its on our lists!

Join us and let the adventures begin!

 PS.

The Classic Chicago Magazine recently published an article that Debi wrote regarding her travels and culinary experiences in Alba, Italy. 

https://classicchicagomagazine.com/truffles-and-wine-in-the-piedmont/ 

Enjoy!

Ciao, 

Debi and Sherrill

CITY SIDEWALKS,

BUSY SIDEWALKS,

DRESSED IN HOLIDAY STYLE.

IN THE AIR,

THERE’S A FEELING OF CHRISTMAS . . . .

from “Silver Bells”

Wherever you wander this month of December please take in the spirit of the season.

Be inspired and appreciate the creativity of others as they have spent hours . . .perhaps days . . .putting up lights, decorating trees and wreaths . . .creating beauty for all to enjoy

Perhaps it will give you ideas for how you want to decorate for the holidays!

We are sharing our favorite colorful festoons, fairy lights, snowflake cutouts, bows and ribbons making a wonderland of beautiful Chicago.

Including our very special tea at the historical Glessner House. Lovingly restored and now serving as a museum, it is a wonderful home from Chicago’s late eighteen hundreds where the city founders dined and partied together.

We enjoyed a Victorian Tea served in the dining room. This menu was quite different than the Afternoon Tea Service we enjoy today.

Anyone for Artisan Sausage and Cheeses with Mattie’s Brown Bread & Homemade Butter – Winter Chestnut Soup – Roast Turkey Sandwiches on Light bread Rolls with Cranberry Relish, Pickles, Stuffed Olives, Celery – Christmas Bread (Stollen), Plum Pudding with Brandy Sauce & Eggnog Ice Cream – Spiced Cider and Mulled Wine?

We loved the experience and wanted to share with all of you!

Be inspired by the spirit of sharing, giving and the warmth of the season.

“Christmas is a together sort of holiday. That’s my favorite kind. . .Winnie the Pooh”

Our favorite kind too!!

A FILM IS COMING OF THE SILENT PATIENT.. . .by Alex Michaelides.

Read the book first and compare!

In our experiences, books are usually better than their film adaptations . . . . .the exception being the iconic Gone With The Wind which in our humble opinions was far superior to the book!

As writers we know the tropes of mysteries so can often spot the red herrings . . .the twists and turns of a skilled storyteller.

However, this book was a page turner from page one right through to page three hundred and twenty three! When the climax came we were awe struck!

Congratulations, Alex!

There was a lively discussion at Book Club Babes.

Please join us and let us know how you felt at the conclusion of this riveting read!

DID YOU KNOW . . . .

Chicago has a Fashion Week just like the big four, New York City, London, Milan and Paris?

We are delighted to bring you a taste of Chicago’s first fashion week since the Pandemic!

Let us know what you think about the fashions at the Neiman Marcus luncheon and show . . .then heading over to Saks Fifth Avenue to meet Cinq A Sept founder, Jane Siskin to view the brands Fall 2024 Collection . . . .who would miss meeting the talented team of Badgley Mischka back at Neimans . . . a fabulous night at Chicago Fashion

Showcase when they took over iconic Union Station and our favorite Chicago designer, Lauren Lein, closed the show with her best collection ever, A BEAUTIFUL TRAINWRECK.

We love the quote about the show from Chicago Fashion Showcase founder, Wendy Callupe….”A nod to the designers, style-setters, creators, textile workers and everyone working behind the scenes to push Chicago’s fashion forward.

It’s not about clout or being the first – it’s about celebrating the creativity, beauty, and grit that makes this city so special.”

No Chicago fashion story would be complete without Entrepreneur Contessa with the final word on fashions at her Boutique at One Delaware Place

We have our favorite fashions of the week . . .please tell us yours . . . .

Good Morning America recommended The Midnight Library as a great read so Book Club Babes jumped on the bandwagon and made it our choice for the month!

The Midnight Library by Matt Haig

is about a mystical library that lets people sample all the ways their lives MIGHT have gone had they made other choices.

As we know, life is all about choice and consequence.

After attempting suicide (frankly we had a bit of trouble with that decision) Heroine, Nora, arrives between life and death at The Midnight Library which is filled with books about all her “possible lives” – it appears endless!

It is the multiverse where we are all living different lives at the same time. Nora has the chance to live all her lives. And of course time has no meaning in the library. Nora can spend mere minutes in one of her lives, or she can spend months deciding if that is the life worth living.

Will Nora make the path from suicide to closure, from regret to acceptance?

Dear Reader, you must take the journey with her to find out.

Full Disclosure!

The Midnight Library

was a hard read at the beginning – not an immediate page turner for us.

It did build to the point where, yes, we wanted to read another chapter to find out what happened next.

This book ignited quite a discussion at our Book Club Babes – one of the longest and heated.

Please join us on YouTube DARE TO BE CURIOUS to get the rest of the story!

THERE IS BEAUTY IN SELF-EXPRESSION,IN CONFIDENCE, IN EXPERIENCE,

WHO WE’VE BEEN AND WHO WE MIGHT BECOME.

Each season, fashion offers us new propositions – YOU decide which fashions reflect your inner self. If fashion is art – you are the canvas to create magic.

For us, the fun of “dress up” to express ourselves has lasted a lifetime.

So we visited CONTESSA BOTTEGA IN CHICAGO,

one of our favorite bowers of fashion delights to share their treasures with you.

Here are words of wisdom

from designer, entrepreneur Contessa and Christopher Stefano, manager and assistant buyer: “It’s never a bad moment to think about Fall Fashion! Which is arguably the best time of the year for dressing.

It’s cold enough to wear all your favorite pieces at the same time.

Hello layers! But warm enough to actually go outside and show off your outfit from matching sets to full leather leggings and ankle boots, blazers, jackets and coats. These are the staple items to add to your fall wardrobe!”

From the Trunk Show

for classic Barbara Bui to romantic Camilla, click through to our YouTube Channel Dare to be Curious to choose YOUR perfect self expression!

Can’t summer in Italy this year?

Never Fear!

Book Club Babes’ June choice, These Tangled Vines, by Julianne MaClean will transport you there!

This great Summer read

spills over with the sumptuous flavors and romance of Tuscany.

It is a journey of love, secrets, sacrifice, courage –

and most importantly, the true meaning of family

Please take the journey with us

by clicking though to our YouTube Channel, Dare to be Curious, as we not only discuss the book but also share a history of Tuscany

and are presented wine selections

by the Maestro of the Chicago Delegation of The Knights of the Truffle and Wines of Alba, Italy, Georgia K. Marsh.

A book and an evening to remember.

Multiple Sclerosis is close to our hearts as we have loved ones who have been diagnosed and daily live with this disorder of the central nervous system.

They may or may not experience symptoms of this neural damage.  Their symptoms may or may not involve their eyes, their arms, their legs, and may or may not be disabling.

We are determined to make a difference in the lives of not only our loved ones, but the lives of people who live with this disease by raising the profile of MS, as well as raising funds for advocacy and research.

We are continually amazed by the powerful stories of those who live and thrive with this disorder.  From Sherrill’s daughter, Nora, to our wonderful friends, Bethany and Andrew, who’s story we shared a few years ago when Bethany was honored at the Annual Together for the Cure:Chicago. 

We are thrilled to report that they are now married and blissfully happy!

This years honoree, Monique B. Jones, LCSW, has her own powerful story to tell.

Please click through to our YouTube Channel to share this amazing day of hope and love.

“Once again I have encountered a book that proves how wonderful it is to become immersed in a rich, long novel . . .this novel has it all: seduction, danger, revenge, and a mystery that the author teases with mastery.  Zafon has outdone even the mighty Charles Dickens” . . . .The Philadelphia Inquirer

Is there anything more exciting than discovering an author who makes you think, feel, and yearn to read every book he has ever written?  We think not!

Carlos Ruiz Zafon

was unknown to us until, our fearless leader, Lezley Hodes, the founder of Book Club Babes, chose his brilliant THE SHADOW OF THE WIND, as our read for May.

As readers and writers how could we not be dazzled by a novel about the power that one book can exert over the right reader.?

Debi totally agreed with Stephen King. . .

”If you thought the true gothic novel died with the nineteenth century, this will change your mind.  The Shadow of the Wind is the real deal, a novel where even the subplots have subplots . . this is one gorgeous read”

One of Debi’s favorite quotes was on page 209, “Books are mirrors:  you only see in them what you all have inside you.”

I have too many favorite quotes, images, insights to choose . . . only to state that I give the author the ultimate compliment . . . I literally could not stop turning the pages!

There are few more enticing-sounding places than the Cemetery of Forgotten Books.

Please don’t forget to click through to our YouTube Channel, Dare to be Curious for the rest of the story . . . really, you should!

sit right next to us…

for Fun and Fashion

It’s that time of year . . .you know the time . . .when you look into your closet and declare “It’s Spring and I have nothing to wear”

Your closet might resemble mine pictured here.

Trust me it looks larger and neater than it presents to me every morning.

Perhaps it is our childhood memories of wearing pretty flowery dresses for those Spring Rituals of old or that we are bored with our Winter black and more black….

Whatever the reason, bright happy colors beckon us.

So, when Neiman Marcus beckoned,

inviting us to premier fashion events, including an Oscar Luncheon and Fashion Show, we answered a resounding YES!

For many many pictures

of Oscar’s incredible designs viewed up close and personal and speaking hundreds of “Oohs” from the audience, please click through to our YouTube Channel, DARE TO BE CURIOUS

REMEMBER . . .”I LOVE NEW CLOTHES. If everyone could just wear new clothes everyday, I reckon depression wouldn’t exist anymore” Sophie Kinsella, Writer

It is something to consider.

Especially when confronted with the beauty and workmanship of an Oscar de la Renta dress.