Of course in Chicago this time of year, we can experience all four seasons in one day!
For us warm weather means Summer, which – again for us – starts on Memorial Day.
That long weekend which is the unofficial start to cookout season!
However, Memorial Day is foremost a day to remember the millions of heroes who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country – for the world.
We grew up with this enduring quote by JFK: “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words but to live by them.”
We give thanks and embrace the privilege of freedom to celebrate friends and families with pool parties, parades and backyard cookouts.
We asked several friends how they celebrate Memorial Day. More than a few stated: “It’s the start of summer. With the fireworks of July 4th in the middle and ends with Labor Day and the kids going back to school.”
Welcome to Summer!!
Many – us included - thought we were celebrating Mexican Independence.
ACTUALLY, ON May 5, Cinco de Mayo commemorates the anniversary of Mexico’s victory over the Second French Empire at the Battle of Puebla on May 5, 1862, led by General Ignacio Zaragoza.
Even though his army was outnumbered in the battle which lasted from daybreak to sunset, General Zaragoza realized the superior French forces were losing because his troops were utilizing the knowledge of their homeland terrain to defeat the invaders.
The victory that day became a symbol of Mexican resistance.
In 2005, US Congress passed a resolution recognizing the historical significance of this holiday and encouraged a celebration of Mexican culture through food, drink, dance and music.
We started at the fabulous Colores Mexicanos
605 Michigan Ave., Chicago, IL 60601
coloresmexicanoschicago.com
What a treasure trove!
A beautiful collection of textiles carefully curated to bring all the best in exquisitely handmade garments and tablescapes.
Debi’s “had to have” was a piece of hand crafted jewelry - truly, everything in the store tempted us!
Packages in hand, we headed to our favorite regional Mexican restaurant, Tzuco by Chef Carlos Gaytán, who became the first Mexican Chef to receive a Michelin star in 2013 and 2014.
TZUCO
720 North State St., Chicago, IL 60654
tzuco.com
We had loved dinner there so this time we tried their brunch served only on Saturday and Sunday
And the margarita’s! We wanted to try a new twist ourselves so ordered a float of amaretto on top – Sherrill’s with salt – Debi’s without. Both yummy!
We agree with Congress – May 5 - EVERYONE should experience the culture of Mexico.
PASARLO BIEN
“Spring is the time of plans and projects”
—Leo Tolstoy
As the weather warms up and Spring arrives our urge for renewal – new beginnings – sends us scurrying to redecorate – to clean our houses – particularly our closets.
We determine it is time to weed out and replant with the best new Spring fashions to make us bloom!
“The magic in new beginnings is truly the most powerful of them all.”
Please join us on our YouTube Channel, Dare to be Curious, as we share our afternoon of fun and fashion.
The theme of this astonishing novel, FOREIGN AFFAIRS BY ALLISON LURIE, is how we change when we move to a new place and we are not surrounded by the expectations of others.
The book takes place in England and since we are both Anglophiles like the main character, Vinnie, we immediately identified with her!
She is there on a grant to work on her new book about children’s folk rhymes. Sherrill identified with Vinnie on many levels – not only because she is small in stature and wears a size five shoe!
Vinnie is also a woman who has given up and believes no one will truly love her because no man ever has. So when she finds someone who is not remotely the sort of man she can seriously imagine for herself, it changes her.
The big moment for her is when she does something frightening and uncomfortable because she wants to do what Chuck would have expected of her. His view of her is that she’s an absolutely wonderful person. She knows she’s not, but she wants to live up to that view of herself. And by doing this thing, which she doesn’t think of as very important, she has a tremendous effect on the lives of others.
There are countless rich layers to this book and so many fascinating characters. Fred, Vinnie’s young colleague, in England doing his research without his recently separated wife – he is miserable until he meets a beautiful unpredictable English actress and is introduced into her dizzyingly romantic world.
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USA TODAY wrote “IF YOU MANAGE TO READ ONLY A FEW GOOD BOOKS A YEAR, MAKE THIS ONE OF THEM.”
World Storytelling Day is a global celebration of the art of storytelling.
It is celebrated every year on the March equinox – March 20th.
On that day, as many people as possible tell and listen to stories in as many languages and at as many places as possible during that day and night.
It all started without much coordination or without much fanfare in the 90’s in Sweden, Australia, Mexico and other Latin American countries. It has grown into a worldwide phenomenon because really, who doesn’t love a great story?
Activities are planned on days around the equinox. Some examples of what can be done:
–Surprise a school with storytellers in the classrooms
– Organize an event at your library
– Combine Storytelling with music and/or dance
– Team up with a restaurant (take a page from Ashford Castle in Ireland where they have a resident storyteller in their restaurant)
– Share stories at a Senior Home
Do you have a story to tell? Please come be inspired at our YouTube channel, DARE TO BE CURIOUS!
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Her characters filled the pages of Property of a Noblewoman.
Go spend time with them and enjoy the fairytale.
Be it lose the weight from a joyful holiday season - join a gym or yoga class - get a new hair style or go darker or lighter or red!
All good goals - let’s face it goals are all good & the joy of reaching your goals even better!
The goal to follow your dreams & making them a reality was the inspiration for the luncheon that we attended, “New Year, New Me.”
The speaker was Alpana Singh famed restaurateur, master sommelier, television personality and author.
We saw many in the audience taking notes. We did too!
We will be sharing our new goals for Dare to be Curious!
We would love to hear your goals - we are all in this together!
It is the highest compliment one can give a writer!
We give it to Taylor Jenkins Reid for her book, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo.
There are so many levels of reading pleasure in this book – where to start?
The voice of the author immediately drew us in as she introduced the main characters: the young reporter and the silver-screen legend finally ready to tell her story.
We loved the glam of old Hollywood and the thinly veiled tales that mirrored true life.
There is juicy gossip – characters who made us want to know “what happened?” – so we kept turning pages to get answers.
And the book gives the reader those answers which surprise and captivate
At its heart, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, is about the depth and breadth of true love.
It doesn’t get any better than that!
There is no better time than the first month of a new year to start reading a new book!
Join our book club vicariously through us – share the experience and the journey.
Just click on the link above and get your book!
We’d love to hear how YOU feel about Evelyn Hugo!
Our friend and designer, Laurie Borsé, followed her dream to Paris, after she won First Place Evening Wear Designer and “All Outstanding Designer” in the Fashion Group International student competition of 39 Universities. The Scholarship to PARIS FASHION INSTITUTE was part of her award.
Laurie told us,
“This changed my life! I vowed I would NOT return until I worked for Yves Saint Laurent!’’
She did just that! Among other opportunities in Paris!
Now a couture fashion designer under her own Brand Label: BORSÉ Laurie Paris she designs between Paris and Chicago designing for private clients Sur Measure.
We were recently fortunate to visit Laurie in Paris.
Yes, there was no elevator (just like in our fav series, Emily in Paris) – so we walked up the six flights to her tiny studio where we were greeted with fresh flowers in her narrow couloir, her door opened and she whisked us thru her studio, out the French doors to her flower covered terrace overlooking the Eiffel Tower!
What a delight!
We sat enjoying French champagne, foie gras, fresh fromage all French delicacies prepared by Laurie.
We also visited her atelier next door where Laurie does EVERYTHING!
And we mean everything!
Laurie starts by sketching her designs – her sketches are truly frameable art! Honestly, they are so very special.
She drapes the muslin to create the pattern and first sewn muslin sample. She makes adjustments and the final muslin is also sewn by Laurie.
Since she designs for private clients, it may take a few muslins until the final muslin fitting. Then it is on to creating final patterns, cutting the fabric, stay stitching all pieces necessary before the final sewing and precision pressing.
Laurie’s love for the entire process from sketching to sewing and hand stitching the final garment is so obvious.
She takes the time and meticulous care needed to make sure each garment is made with quality and love.
Laurie assured us,
“All worth the effort and time. Once my clients step into one of my creations . . .the smile I see on my clients face and in their eyes . . . warms my heart with love and joy and sometimes a tear.”
Laurie is a woman who is truly living her passion for designing.
We are thrilled to feature her on our Dare to be Curious YouTube channel and give our friends the opportunity to own one of her beautiful designs – created with love!
When DARE TO BE CURIOUS was invited to attend a fashion show at Neiman Marcus Chicago to present Law Roach’s collaboration with Herve Leger-Herve Leger X Law Roach…
We loved hearing the story of his lasting friendship with Zendaya . The pair met when she was fourteen years old and in need of a dress for the premiere of the Justin Bieber: Never Say Never documentary.
Since then his client list is a who’s who of Hollywood style icons: Celine Dion, Ariana Grande, Anya Taylor-Joy, Kerry Washington to name a few.
We leave you with one of our favorite Law Roach quotes: ”Work hard, believe in yourself and treat others the way you want to be treated.”
It says it all.
We have all been at our local grocery stores with our list in hand. When we were rearing children there would be one or two in the grocery cart “helping” us. Then it wasn’t exactly an adventure but more a necessity.
Times have changed.
DOM’S, welcome to the neighborhood.
It was love at first sight.
Join us on our YouTube Channel, Dare To Be Curious!
The Godfather is still Golden after 50 years
Francis Ford Coppola’s Oscar Winning Adaptation of Mario Puzo’s The Godfather is considered a cinematic masterpiece 50 years after it was released in 1972.
We discussed endless stories about the book – like the author and Frank Sinatra getting into a near physical altercation over the novel at Chasen’s, then a celebrity hot spot near Beverly Hills.
We love the immersive experience of our book club and love sharing it will all of you.
Stay tuned for our November book!
We are so happy we live in a world where there are Octobers – the crips fresh air – the burnish glory of fall foliage – the cool mornings, warmth of the sun midday, the chill of evenings.
Alas, summer is over and the holiday season not yet upon us.
What we wear is how we choose to present ourselves to the world - which these days mean it will forever be on social media.
Fall turns us into fashionistas!
We went to one of our favorites in Chicago – Contessa - for how to dress up what’s already in our wardrobes to ideas for our next big event! And does she have suggestions!
The power of a great outfit has the ability to transform your mood and the way you look – remember those phone cameras are recording you for posterity!
“The joy of dressing is an art”
-designer, John Galliano
A LIFE WELL LIVED
“ I declare before you all that my whole life whether it be long or short shall be devoted to your service and the service of our great imperial family to which we all belong.”
Portion of a speech given by Queen Elizabeth on her twenty-first birthday.
She kept her word literally until the day she left us.
If there was ever any doubt that all the work to share those historical moments were worth the time and effort those doubts were banished by the appreciation and enthusiasm of all who shared in the friendship of that morning.
Even more important to Sherrill was a text she received the next morning from her youngest son, “What year was it when you woke us up for croissants for Princess Diana? That’s a really strong memory that I have. Love you!”
Please keep making memoires – they really do last a lifetime.
Sometimes the sequel is as good as the original!
It happened at Movie Night 2 – aptly named for a second Summer Movie Themed Party.
Last year Grease was the focus of the night complete with Pink Jackets for the ladies and a dance off.
We are delighted to report that Debi and Sherrill were among the top three costume winners! Yes, we too pulled out all stops!
Plus, of course, a balmy beautiful Summers Night.
There are some stories which must never be forgotten.
We feel that way about our Book Club Babes selection of THE DRESSMAKERS OF AUSCHWITZ.
What struck us were the comments. “will to live and take care of two sisters,” and “I thought my sister would stay alive and I didn’t want to leave her alone.”
Sisterhood. Women Supporting Women.
Within every sister-friend relationship there is a unique bond.
We feel it at Book Club and wish to share it with all of you.
Little girls with dreams become women with vision” – Unknown
Did you know Illinois has one of the only all girls baseball teams in the country?
We were thrilled to interview the talented girls of Chaneyville Baseball for our YouTube Channel DARE TO BE CURIOUS.
These girls are following their dreams and as one of the parents shared with us – “What these girls are doing is important and breaking barriers and showing girls that they can do anything they put their minds to.
“Girls can do anything boys can do.”
Assistant Coach Booker Hatcher believes these girls know what they want and are willing to work hard to achieve their goals
He told us what he says to inspire the girls before a game – “You gotta go through fire to get Gold. Which means it’s not always gonna be easy but the tough time will make you better in life on and off the field.” And inspire them he did!
The girls are heading to Nationals! It will take place July 20 – 25
If you would like to know more about supporting the dreams of these determined girls please reach out by calling 773-909-5598.
“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says I’m possible!” Audrey Hepburn
We aren’t sure who wrote this but the following totally captures our themed party celebrating love: “True passion is intoxicating and invigorating, soothing and sensuous, magical and mystical, I just thought you should know what you’re in for!”
We have all read articles about how to give a themed party – the themed invitations, the venue, the appropriate music, etc.
So, we all know the elements that makes for a very special party full of everything beautiful and romantic. The fun is in making it happen!
Our themed party was inspired by our dear friend, Bethany and her fiancé Andrew. You met Bethany in https://bigbiggerbiggest.life/blog/2022/5/29/women-supporting-women-interview-with-ms-luncheon-honoree-bethany-florek and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8jbdk05vAA and now you will meet Andrew!
Their love story inspired the Engagement Party we are sharing with you on our YouTube channel, “Dare to be Curious.”
We were thrilled that so many friends of “Dare to be Curious” made this party so amazing!
The venue was the sweet and sassy home of Chicago designer, Lauren Lein. She also designed and hand painted Bethany’s extraordinary outfit for the evening. You’ve met Lauren before at https://bigbiggerbiggest.life/blog/2021/12/8/holiday-galas-gowns-fabric-trunk-shows-holiday-make-overs-and-much-much-more and https://youtu.be/dGj3TSVhWFA
The outstanding floral arch was created by our beloved Harry from The Garden at Old Irving. You’ve loved and viewed him many times (see https://bigbiggerbiggest.life/blog/2022/4/6/spring-is-springing-floral-segment-with-our-friend-harry-2 and https://youtu.be/EZHg8_qTNO4) He never ceases to amaze with his talent.
There was dancing, champagne toasts, delicious food from Chicago’s iconic Gene and Georgetti’s, yummy cake and of course, Debi’s Divine Biscotti!
All the elements on those lists of how to do a themed party were in place. Plus, there was that extra special something in the air which marks a night to remember – TRUE LOVE.
“When you’re lucky enough to meet your one person, then life takes a turn for the best. It can’t get better than that.” Actor, John Krasinski
Excitement has been in the air for months in anticipation of Queen Elizabeth's Platinum Jubilee.
Sherrill witnessed the preparations first hand on her recent visit to England and she remains in awe of the outpouring of affection given to the longest reigning monarch in Britain's history..
The Queen has been loved and revered for the lifetimes of generations since she was born on April 21, 1926. In 1947, just turning 21, she made her first radio broadcast in which she pledged "I declare before you all that my whole life, whether it be long or short, shall be devoted to your service and the service of our great imperial family to which we all belong."
Never were words more prophetic!
She has reigned for 70 years with dignity and kept that long ago promise made to a nation.
So many books have been written - the world knows she loves her corgis and her horses - she's the only person in the UK allowed to drive without a license - she has family drama which might drive many of us to our knees. The Crown gave us a glimpse but as writer's we know there is always more to reveal.
It seemed so absolutely perfect to choose ELIZABETH & MARGARET the Intimate World of the Windsor Sisters by Andrew Morton as our June selection for BOOK CLUB BABES, our book club - particularly since Sherrill had "met" Andrew on zoom via another book discussion between authors.. And it seemed absolutely perfect to have our monthly discussion at a Tiara Afternoon Tea.
Please join us as we sip and discuss and reveal what surprised us most about two drastically different women
The following quotes are thought provoking:
"At long last, I know who I am and what I represent ...above all, a woman who is free. Free to live, to love. Free to break away." Margaret Windsor
"When life seems hard, the courageous do not lie down and accept defeat: instead they are all the more determined to struggle for a better future." Elizabeth II